The Cause of Pain and How to Avoid It

What is pain? Pain is the effect of a powerful desire blocked by a contradictory thought/belief regarding that desire. The full process of pain birth is the following: Example: Someone offers you a new job offer (external factors), and this triggers inside you the desire to change jobs, but also it triggers your personal thoughtContinue reading “The Cause of Pain and How to Avoid It”

The contrast of falling in love

 What is falling in love? The feeling of falling in love or infatuation is actually the feeling of focusing on the positive aspects of someone. Most of the times, this happens at the beginning of the relationship, when you barely know the person, so it’s easy to spot only the positive aspects of that person,Continue reading “The contrast of falling in love”

Stop working so hard! It’s a trap!

As any person striving for achieving goals I came across in Youtube videos, media, books, TV shows or even movies, this idea that you need to work HARD to be successful. You need to hustle. You need to step out of your comfort zone. You need planners and TODO lists. You need to sweat.  YouContinue reading “Stop working so hard! It’s a trap!”

The people in your life combined are YOU

In this article I’m going to explain how the people surrounding you, in your day to day life, from the supermarket cashier, to your coworker, to your best friend,  to your spouse, combined together, are actually….. you. Chapter 1 : Core Values -Virtues and Vices Our core values are made up of virtues and vices.Continue reading “The people in your life combined are YOU”

Should you trust people?

  This is not a tutorial on how to trust someone. This is not a checklist of what makes someone trustworthy or not. This is not a list of ‘red flags’ you should watch out for. You cannot control the actions of others. The only reason you crave so much for trust, is due toContinue reading “Should you trust people?”

Wisdom Bombs

Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night with some inspirational quotes in my head, that will haunt me for days. Other times, they just come to me spontaneously, after weeks or days of questions in my head. Since I can’t write a whole article around one single idea all the time, IContinue reading “Wisdom Bombs”

Why do you attract certain people and how to control that

You create your own reality. The basis of your creation is in how you feel. The way you feel will lead you to certain thoughts, that eventually will manifest in the physical form, if held for more than 16 seconds.  The people in your life are co-creators to your own reality, by constantly showing youContinue reading “Why do you attract certain people and how to control that”

How to make decisions in life

The process of making decisions , from deciding on small things like what you will have for dinner, to bigger things, like choosing from two different paths or partners, is something that we should constantly work on to improve, and we should treat with high importance and from a place of consciousness. First of allContinue reading “How to make decisions in life”

What is true love

Since the moment we are born, no matter how hard we deny it, we all want to feel loved, to share love and understand it. All the relationships we have along the way, with our parents, siblings, friends and lovers, will determine how we see love and unfortunately will make us sometimes associate love withContinue reading “What is true love”

How to find a true answer to "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?"

After finishing collage, having a degree in computer science, like any other fresh graduate, I started job scouting, and preparing for interviews. I was interviewing for a software engineer position in several multinational companies, and I noticed one of the common questions were : “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” Being a littleContinue reading “How to find a true answer to "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?"”